You're fucked bro, I don't think you can have an "occasional relationship" if feet are involved.. It's too much risk, just a mention of it from her and you're in deep shit.. Unless you're known as a fetishist
tfw i've gotten feet from a few other girls while with my gf. didn't really feel bad about it, because i've gotten so many feet in my life; it's almost separate from sex/sexual stuff. she would definitely be pissed though.
i know i'm fucked up and there's nothing i can do. tonight i'm prolly gonna get a footjob from my girlfriend, but i'd rather prefer to get one from a different girl. it would definitely be more exciting.
could always hit tinder or something when your gf is out of town, or if you're ever out. get some toes during a hookup.
if you have a female friend, you could probably get her feet. then again, i'm usually only friends with a girl if she's relaxed enough for foot stuff. i'll usually lie and say my gf doesn't care about foot shit if they ask, but you'd be surprised how many girls don't ask questions regarding how your gf would feel.
i've always thought about those kind of solutions, but i realized i would feel guilty to do such things behind my gf's back. she loves me and trusts me and would never behave like that. she doesn't deserve to be cheated.
the day she deserves it, i'm definitely gonna get some stranger's feet.
In junior high, there was this black girl who would let me sniff her feet if I did her homework for her. By high school, she'd even give me some of her socks whenever they got worn out and got holes in them. For my birthday our senior year she let me suck on her toes for a few seconds before she got weirded out. She always thought I was a creep, even though we were friends. But I think she got off a little bit to how she was kinda being my domme in a way, else she probably would stopped it after the first time I sniffed them.
Don't know if I could post anything that would change your mind, as I don't really mind big feet. I don't know what you mean by dry though, as most black girls I've met use a shitload of lotion to stop that from happening. The girls feet I was playing with definitely were lotioned. If your talking about there soles being white, that's just how pale the bottom of their feet are. I actually think the contrast is sexy as hell.
And she is 41, as I said. And her feet are much hotter than any of my perv 25-28yo colleges.
Myself, if anonymously she would definitely creep out like everyone else I think. Just that her feet are nice, nothing more.