>be me 18 >have been depressed since 5 years >two weekends ago: nobody wanted to hang out with me and I was bored. so I got drunk >my younger sister saw me drunk alone in the afternoon. >she tells my parents. I lie when they ask me. >the week after, I try to take xanax. Only two times because why not? >dad is medic, prescribed it by myself. >days later, my sister took my phone and read all my chats >tells my mother about xanax and that I want to die >yesterday I saw the whole chat between mom and sister. >fuck this >tell my sister that I have taken xanax form a friend >my mom wants to call cops to my firend
what the fuck should I do? At least I don't want my dad know this
Tell your cunt sister to fuck off out of your business. Just say you got the xanax from a dealer and refuse to specify who it was, you're 18 and can pretty much outright refuse to explain yourself by now.
Don't say shit. If your mom tells the cops who u got the shit from, the cops can't do anything. That's hearsay from a third party, they will never get a warrant for that. They might talk to your friend but just don't say anything. The cops can only go off what you tell them. They will try and make it seem like you have to confess or you will go to jail, but it's BS cop are aloud to lie. Also kill your self after this, so u don't fuck over anyone else
Was in a similar situation OP, except for me the whole fight started from my sister and mother's drunken rampage and ended with wine bottles being chunked at my friends car and police called on me. From the Looks of it i think the best thing to do is have a conversation with your mother and father. With your dad being a medic im sure they'll come to an agreement that you do need help but the suicide fiasco was drugs talking, just stay calm and explain yourself. As for your friend, im sure its all a bluff, just explain yourself and get done with this part of your life and move on.
>>390301 (OP) Um bro you're a legal adult and if you want to be treated like one how about you start acting like one. I'm 19 live 300+ miles from any family and 650 (1000km) from my immediate family. I left overnight with just a note behind and an emergency contact number. I live in a shared home w 3 other grown adults and have learned more in my first week there on my own than the meme of letting mom and dad tell me what's best. If you live a life where you're a man but not acting lije one, expect some depression resulting from cognative dissonance to settle in. You've lived 18 years and still fear your dad's repercussions? You probably ought not to be doing illegal stuff if you're not man enough to be upfront about it.
>>390301 (OP) 1. Password everything up you retard , passwords are one of the things to protect yourself from shit like this. 2. Tell your sister to fuck off or she is gonna feel worse. 3.Tell that you got in contact with a dealer only once and don't know who it is. Also post sisters nudes as revenge
>>390880 /thread help you to find a way of enjoy life you nignog its not like you cant go back on decisions also leave all this btards telling you how to manage your businnes, dont tell your sister to fuck off, talk to your parents, your dad is a medic and also you seem to respect him i think he can give you assistence
>>392043 >>391944 >>391877 I don't fear my dad, I respect him. I just don't want to talk about my problems with anyone because I find it.. humiliating especially with him, who thinks I'm a disappointment.
>>390301 (OP) tell them that meddling in your affairs and controlling you like that is actually doing you more harm than good. Also tell the truth about the xanax, no need to get your friend in trouble.
>>393300 you ARE a disappointment. your decision-making capabilities (getting caught twice by your snitch sister, snitching on your friend yourself for no reason, being a depressed disabled loser and doing nothing about it, etc.) all prove that. grow the FUCK up you little shit
maybe don't laze around drunk/high all day and find something meaningful to do? this shit with your family clearly isn't the real issue. you're just 18, you have nothing real to be depressed about yet even with a disability
>>394134 this. fuck you and die OP. NO SYMPATHY FOR A SNITCH - and he didn't even sell you that shit, you're just a shitty scared kid. don't throw your friends over the bus for no reason and fuck THEIR lives up too, asshole
>>394135 I don't understand the fucking point of view of these rats. You tell the cops where you got it, you think that's gonna make them be nice to you? Fuck no. Maybe you get a reduced sentence but once your bid is up you gotta look over your shoulder all the time.
Do your time and keep your fuckin' mouth shut, even if it's not the cops and it's just nosy ass fuckin' people like OP's relatives.
Least OP could do is call his friend and tell him to lose the weight.
>>394362 the number of times i've seen or heard of people self-snitch when the cops have had nothing on them is astounding. THEY HAD NOTHING ON YOU KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT. even if they did have shit it ain't gonna make them nice to you, and it sure as hell won't make you any friends
You are the worst friend one could have. Have the balls to walk up to your parents and tell them you fucked up fgt and get your friend out of this shit.
Something went clearly wrong in your life and don't blame depression for it you just obviously have a shit personality if the first thing which comes to your mind is fucking your friends over because YOU ARE a fucking disappointment for your family. Even tho they are cunts it is all your own fault. Now get it straight.
>>391475 That's what they mean when they complain me about >do this, do that when lot of things I do try makes me end up crying in the shower alone and failed once again, also im from a country where winter is shit so it's like half of the year im running on empty
>>394410 you're an 18-year-old kid who clearly isn't independent. your parents have every right to boss you around until you get out of their hair. you think raising little shits like you for two decades is easy?
OP here I have made my friend name because no one in my family knows him but me. Also I don't intend to fuck my friend, if the thing goes further, I'll take all the responsibility on my own and accept the risks.
>>394409 >it you just obviously have a shit personality how can I change?
>>394600 >if the thing goes further, I'll take all the responsibility on my own and accept the risks. Oh, how noble of you. How about you take responsibility now and you don't let it escalate any further, you fucking dick. >caring family >has friends >can prescribe himself Xanax cause daddy is a doctor You're not depressed, little bitch. You're a spoiled, suburban white kid who wants attention.
Dude you should just admit what you did, cause if you lie (like everyone is telling you to do) it'll only get worse. Yes, your parents might act more cautious about you and not let you anywhere near your dad's shit, but that could be for the better in the long term. Also get a fucking password on your phone or tell your sister to get the fuck out of your shit cause privacy is nice and she shouldn't be invading it.
>>390881 Nigger I use to do drugs and shit all the time and the best way out is to say your depressed and were looking for something to try to kill the thoughts you have. Say you feel like the xanax is the only thing that numbs the pain. It makes you not feel your hurt or some other bullshit. Put your own spin on it and the worst they will do is send you to a psych place and youll be out in a week
>>390303 Snitching seems to run in the family, you stupid fuck.
I take all kinds of drugs on that base, and if I was caught with my backback filled with a collection of shit, I'd even take the hard way with a fucking cop and never drop my dealer's name or unlock my phone, got caught by my family and never gave out details. I just told em that I get my shit from different dealers, which is true, end of discussion. The rest is my deal. But at least I confess my own shit, instead of being a sackless little bitch who pushes the blame for my issues and mistakes on others.
You're just a snitch who can't put his feet on his ground and say >here I am, being the man I am, with all my mistakes and flaws, but at least I know who I am. What're you gonna do about it?
Stop being scared of consequences, you little bitch. You're 18. You're an adult now. You know what's the difference between a child and an adult? Being a man instead of a boy.
Right now, you're a boy.
>oh geez, I'm a dumb little shit who drops party pills and does dumb shit, oh boyoboy, how am I wiggle myself out of the consequences like the sneaky bitch I am? You don't. You take em. You grab yourself by the balls, remind yourself that you're going your own way and not anyone else's, find the guts to open up to friends and family, and explain your thinking.
The shit you're telling us now? That you were bored and hence got drunk? Instead of being a lying bitch, tell em that. And tell em you took xanax for the same reason.
My mother and grandparents both know I took LSD, weed, speed, shrooms, ecstacy, smoke cigarettes, and occasionally get shitfaced from booze, and they didn't find out, I confessed it, only because I had an issue with weed ruining my life.
They know me. They know I stand for the man I am. And that's why they trust me, despite all the shit I do. Because I'm actually able to deal with consequences, the way any real man should, you fucking weak little pussy.
>>395395 Is 18 really perceived as an adult? fuck man. The human brain finishes development by 25 and maximum bone density for a human is reached by 30 (270 at birth, 206 by 30 as some bones fuse together). I had the assumption you are an adult by the age of 27, though that may just be wishful thinking for me still having time to clean up my act.