Liste OP, you never, NEVER, give women that much power over you. The fact that you did tells me you are a worthless cuck and is probably the reason your girl left you. You all REALLY NEED TO STOP LISTENING TO FEMINISM and listening to your imbecile mothers, sisters and whatnot. Women are NOT your friends, women are after a man's stability and position because they will forever be unable to secure it for themselves.
Instead of whaling like a little bitch you should've prepared yourself, to be strong FOR YOURSELF, not for her, not for women. Fems have no fucking clue what loyalty and sacrifice means, they have had it handed to them for millenia and still want to have it handed to them today, despite 'muh feminism'.
So get your shit together, understand that no one woman is worth it because no woman will ever appreciate it.
No women is worth your time. The best you could do is try to forget her and pull your shit together because she's moved on already and the next time you have another vagina to penetrate, don't make it your "world."
Do you, anon. Live a better life and rise above that cunt.
>>320916 >Start seeing a therapist.
Last time I did this I got hooked on benzos and my life sucked more. I'm clean now but I'm scared of going to a therapist to be honest. I feel like I need to, because I absolutely have no friends, I work from home, I study online, I don't go out at all...
I code for a living. I work remotely. I'm a back end developer.
How to fix it? Even if I go out I can't seem to meet new people, seems like everyone has already their group of friends and they don't need anyone else. I have nothing to talk about. That I code for a living? That watch twitch? That I read programming books? That I watch hockey? I have nothing interest in my life going on. What am I supposed to talk with a girl? About places I've never been? Things I've never done?
>>320922 >Have you never had friends before?
Real friendships? No, I studied in an expensive school (thanks Dad and Mom!) and I was always the poor kid, no one came to my house, as a matter of fact, I wanted no one in my house because I was ashamed, I grew up with some days having nothing to eat. And I'm always changing house because I rent, my family (or me) don't own a house, we are always the new guys in every place.
I don't know how to get friends. I met my ex because she was a loner too.
a woman worth marrying is one in a million. you should not trust girls. you should not invest money or a significant amount of time in girls. you are mroe important to yourself than some random fucking slut.
Hey anon I need advice
I have to take a decision but if I do it alone I'm almost sure I will fuck up everything
There is this girl we will call Any who thinks I'm still in love with Mary
I think I'm attracted to both of them but I'm closer to Any, so she tells me almost everything
So I know she likes the same guy as Mary
I will go on a vacations trip in a few days and I won't be able to see anyone but I could talk to them by messages
Should I confess my feelings to Any?
>My first language isn't english so maybe I explained something wrong >btw I made up the names
d is mainly made up by social outcasts/mentally ill people. If you've been in a relationship lasting more than a fucking week you've come further than 90% on this condemned site. Most are rejects that are so hateful towards women because they just don't have the fucking capacity to get one, or even just a one night stand.
>We were together for 6 years means you got qualities good enough to keep a very long relationship. I know it must hurt, but come on, you can do better. Unless you're a literal 0 with no charisma or character what so ever you can easily get a woman.
The world isn't fair, but you can make it want YOU want it to be. These depressed fucks don't know shit about how life is supposed to be lived and they've given up all hope.
Go out, be brave. Good things in life will come from it and I wish you the best. Again, don't give up.
I went to a few raves with a girl that liked me long time ago, she contacted that girl out of nowhere, that girl told her we kissed (and we did tbh, we were together so I technically cheated on her) so she broke up with me because of that.
This was a problem that happened many years ago, she forgave me because I went out with that girl because I found out that she was lying to me at that time about so me stuff, she just wanted an excuse so she contacted her again to "feel again the pain and know the truth".
Then she fucking told me she was going to forgive me but she was already fucking another guy, she used to get free meals, movie tickets from me these lasts months and she was taking another dick already, fucking bitch.
I don't know OP, been through some shit recently myself. What's strange is now that I'm alone most of my friends have found someone. Don't know if what I did was right but I isolated myself and got used to being alone, started working out, eating right, focused on my studies. I don't think I'll ever allow a woman to make me that vulnerable again, I believe in love, for those who in hard enough denial not to acknowledge that we're all garbage. I know the feels OP, they will subside and you will be fine, whether or not you want to because as humans, we adapt to whatever situation we are placed in, albeit slowly.
I'm no sure you can ever let those memories go. You made an investment that didn't work out. Same situation, here. Surround yourself with as many friends and family as possible. Channel that pain into something creative.
Listen, man. You CANNOT worry about what can't change. Just keep going, keep getting better as a person. Keep growing. Life is suffering, but what you do in the face of that suffering defines you. :-). Keep going, I bet there's people that could depend on you, right?
im 26, broke off a 6 year relationship just 10 minutes ago (it was a rebound for a month) so im kinda in the same boat. dont be pussy op, stay strong, be strong always. you let her be your world, you werent their world for who knows how long, just realize its over and move on. IT OVER, MOVE ON. IT OVER, MOVE ON. IT OVER, MOVE ON. IT OVER, MOVE ON. IT OVER, MOVE ON. IT OVER, MOVE ON.